2012 Year in Review

January:

Changed My Major to Business/French Classes/Calling in RS Presidency

February:

Valentine's Day Challenge/Pinterest Parties/Ward Conference

March:

Bridal shower/Women in business/Finished certifications

Just keep breathing.  The sun will rise tomorrow.  And who knows what the tide may bring.

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April:

Start of summer/Weddings/New roommates

May:

Avengers/Home/Little Brother's Graduation

June:

NSO/Got sick/More summer

July:

Independence Day/Mall Trips/RSP

August:

Back to school/Education Week 2012/Shark Week Party/Check-ins/No pics ... 

September:

Elder Oaks/Football 2012/True Joy/Relief Society Broadcast

October:

General Conference/Halloween/Mission Age Change/First Snow

November:

21st Birthday/Thankful Challenge/Ward Talent Show/

What Once Was Lost Has Now Been Found/Mission Papers

December:

Christmas/End of Classes/The Hobbit/Home Again

Not a Happy Little Post (Sorry, Bob Ross)

Today it snowed all day.  

I hate snow.  It's cold and wet, which makes me cold and wet.

Not a good day to get on my bad side.

Due to circumstances which I do not wish to discuss, my blog will be going private this Saturday.  

If you would like to continue to be able to read my posts, send me an email, comment below, or whatever.  

Sometimes, I really just want to smash something. 

Like right now.

In Response to the Pants Movement

Here's the original: click here

And here's where this response is linked to: click here

(Taken from Aimee Whitney, a good friend, on facebook.)  I most emphatically agree with this statement. 

I think this link is a well thought out response to the "wear pants this Sunday" agenda. I really appreciated these words. I've been sorry to read over the last week or so that so many women feel such group frustration and resentment toward the church. And sorry that it is manifesting in what I see as a form of "open rebellion". I say that because that seems to be the intent.

Please consider LDS ladies that it is a social norm that you wear dresses to church and not a commandment. We are asked to show respect to the Lord and to the Sacrament by "wearing our Sunday best". If you cannot afford new or nice clothes that is one thing. Come as you are - and we as Christians should openly accept anyone who wants to come and worship. As was the example given by Christ.

If you have "Sunday best" slacks and you feel more "at your best" in these than in a skirt, by all means wear them to church with pure intent and feel good about it - on ANY Sunday. I take issue, like Adrienne, with the venue and intent to make a large and loud group statement this coming Sunday. Wear pants any Sunday you feel good about wearing them. There is no rule or law that says you can't. Go to the temple in your nice slacks. It may fluster a few old folks, but ultimately if you are a loving, pleasant, and worthy person who happens to be a female wearing slacks - they won't care.

But it is the mentality of rebellion and making a group statement that is wrong in this scenario. I absolutely believe that there are inequalities of the treatment of the sexes in the practice of our religion. But I KNOW it is not inequalities that God condones. Remember that it is imperfect men who run the church on this earth. I've been thinking how frustrating it must be for God to have to rely on us - often selfish, prideful, greedy, sinful, grumpy creatures to move His great work forward. I can just picture Him often shaking His head in disbelief and sighing in disappointment at our behaviors while representing "in His name".

Of the men leading the church today - many or most do their best, some or few create problems for women with their open practice of chauvinism. I have personal experience with encounters with men who clearly view women as "beneath" them and that they need not consider what women think or feel because they have "authority" over them. Generally speaking this kind of behavior tends to come from an older generation, the younger men coming up in the church are more aware of the social acceptance of equality of the sexes - and will heed a woman's opinion more readily.

So again, I empathize with the hurt and frustration. BUT group anger or an attitude of "take that" or "so there" will not help. Trust me, I know. Just learn to be comfortable with what your needs are and take care of you - AKA if you want to wear pants because you feel better in pants, then by all means wear them anytime without having an agenda or something to prove.

In this scenario, I think quiet, humble, truth shown over time by individuals will be more powerful and effective for making change than a loud display of anger or a show of pride on one day by a large group."

Sometimes ...

(I hate it when people do this ... but I just need to vent.)

Sometimes, people do things that make me lose all kinds of faith in humanity and the goodness of others.  Sometimes the things they do are just so downright immature and childish that I just sit there, staring at the computer screen.  Sometimes they're just so stupid that I want osmosis to work so I can slap them with a dictionary.

And sometimes, I think it doesn't really matter.  No matter what other people do, I can still be me, I can still be happy, and I can still move on with my life.

The end.

It's the Final Countdown!!

I wanted to share this song with all of you. 

Cause this is what will be going through my head for the next week.

You're welcome.